Beauty from Ashes.

It’s almost two weeks since the horrific school shooting in Tumbler Ridge up north in BC. A small community of 2700 people in a close knit community. I’ve not been able to write about it, I just couldn’t figure out how to. Even today it’s hard to write about it.

This hit home in a big way. About a month ago we did a practice lockdown drill with our school. I can’t imagine having to do one for something other then a drill. Our school districts mourned loss of the 8 people who were shot and killed two weeks ago.

I won’t go into the details but you can read about them yourself if you want. Today we honor all 8 who died in this tragedy. One was an EA that worked at the high school and a teacher.

All died so young. I can’t imagine the pain their families feel.

It’s so hard to understand why they lost their lives. The community and surrounding communities are devestated. Two children were air lifted to Vancouver Children’s Hospital and one that was shot in the chest is back home again.

Maya is still fighting for her life. She’s touched my heart in so many ways. She went to close the doors of the library to protect the others who were in there. She saved many lives but got shot twice in the head by doing so.

She was air lifted to Vancouver and the doctors told her family that they needed to say goodbye to her, that she would not survive the night. Her family said no we will not say goodbye to her.

Yesterday she opened one of her eyes and she’s been moving around in bed and is slowly breathing on her own. Yesterday she was holding her mom’s hand. Last night Maya had emergency surgery to take the pressure off her brain with the fluids.

This girl is a fighter and the whole world is praying for her and her family. We never know what our future holds. To be told to say goodbye to her to this is Amazing. Please pray for Maya her sister and her family. Maya has extensive damage to her brain from two gunshots in her brain. We still don’t know the extent of the shooting.

Another reminder that life is so precious. Hug your children today hold them close. ❤️

Last week was my dogs dental surgery. He had 8 teeth removed and they wanted to take out two more. They said they were comprised but very deep rooted and their was a risk of fracturing his jaw. I said no he would already have to recover from the 8 teeth he just had removed. They have given me 18 months to decide what to do with them.

I guess the option was to go to a vet dentist. It would be nice to not have to have them removed as they are crucial teeth. I will look into what is best. Who knows where my dog will be in a year and a half.

I was a little worried about the surgery as I’ve never had surgery done on any of my dogs. He’s a trooper and it is crazy how quickly he bounced back after the surgery.

He’s on two weeks of recovery no toys which is really hard. He uses his toys as a way to calm down and he loves to play. No hard food or bones and no chewing. He’s missing his buddies at daycare. We have one more week at home.

It’s hard to keep a dog entertained when he can’t do much of anything. Sunday was his 9th birthday and I got him a lick mat. His birthday will be postponed for a few weeks. I’m not sure where 9 years went. Poof and they were gone.

I’m so glad I get many more years with him. Hopefully he won’t need more teeth out.🙂

I love this dog so much. 9 years ago he changed my life in ways that I could never imagine. He’s a huge part of my life and can’t imagine him not in it. I do know that one day he will won’t be in my life. I hold onto the time we have.

Wednesday he gets his teeth cleaned and put under to get bad teeth removed. I feel peace about it and I pray that he makes it through. A friend reminded me yesterday about love.

” Every time we make the decision to love someone, we open ourselves to great suffering, because those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. The greatest pain comes from leaving. When the child leaves home, when the husband or wife leaves for a long period of time or for good, when the beloved friend departs to another country or dies … the pain of the leaving can tear us apart.
Still, if we want to avoid the suffering of leaving, we will never experience the joy of loving. And love is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.“
Henri Nouwen

It’s a good reminder but yes love is hard even when it’s your pet. They are a huge part of your family. At the end of January Zeke turns 9. I’m not sure where the time has gone. His teeth cleaning will be good best gift to get him back into healthy. I love forward to the many more years we have together. ❤️

My dog needs dental surgery to have his teeth cleaned and get some teeth removed. When I first heard about it I believe in the power of prayer so I started praying. It’s hard when I live pay cheque to pay cheque. Where on earth was I coming up with $1500. Thank goodness I had pet insurance as it paid $1200 of the bill. I reached out to friends and in prayed as well. I had to trust that God has a plan.

This past week I have full amount for the surgery. I’m blessed beyond belief that’s for sure. I’m so thankful for the two people who gave me money for the surgery.

As I was sending the breakdown of surgery to one of the people. I realized that there are forms added to it that I need to sign before surgery. In case something happens I have to sign do the vets resuscitate Zeke and how much money can they use to do it. Or do I sign no resuscitation. I’ve been very teary eyed and have read that sometimes CPR can cause more problems after the fact.

I sometimes hate making these decisions on my own. I realized that I’m not making these decisions on my own, I have the Lord. So I spent the weekend praying about what I should do.

This morning I was not thinking about Zeke and his surgery and I was praying and I felt that I will sign no resuscitation. I do not want Zeke to suffer in any way shape or form. That’s a tough decision one that tears me up but it’s also not a selfish decision. I can’t imagine him not in my life. Some day be will die but I’m hoping to get more years with him.

After meeting my mom today she was so encouraging and said just what I needed to hear today. I was driving home with surgery on my mind and praying for peace. I saw this bird flying low in fact right where I could see him. I thought wow that big bird is pretty low. I saw it was a bald eagle.🦅 Just what I needed today.

God shows me bald eagles 🦅 as a way to tell me that everything is going to be ok. Thanks Lord. I love how putting my trust in Him for all things is so amazing.

“Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and lean not on your own understanding ; and in all ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight.” Proverbs 3: 5-6

So next time your struggling with a decision, reach out to the Lord and pray about it and trust that He will come up with a decision. I do know that our ways are not always the best and God may choose something different that’s when better then we could ever imagine. ❤️

Happy New year to all my readers. Thanks so much for all your support, likes and comments over the years. I look forward to reading what you write and writing more things from my heart. May 2026 be an amazing year for each of us. 😊

It doesn’t matter where you have come from don’t ever give up on your dreams. Dreams are what keep you going. When it seems like things will never change. If I gave up on my dreams I would never be where I am today. I always dreamed of a better life and had no idea the opportunities that I had when I moved from Ireland to Canada. I used to dream about my mom who she was and spending time with her away from all the horrible things that happened to me as a child.

I’m so glad I never gave up on those dreams because now I have an amazing relationship with my mom and my family. I dreamed I would be able to work with children. Not only did that dream come true I have been able to stand in the gap for others. I also have the privilege of doing respite care for a boy I’ve known for 9 years. He’s one of the biggest joys in my life. So even though I didn’t have children of my own I’ve been blessed to be part of so many children’s lives. That is the ultimate blessing.

I dreamed of working with children in school. School for me growing up was my safe place. I love my job so much even though I’m challenged lots. It’s so good to be able to make a difference in the lives of children. I have been able to build amazing trusts with children who have trauma. Those children come running over to me and give me hugs. That bond I will never lose.

I now dream that I will become successful in my business. I have a health and wellness business. Helping others with drug free technology. Tech that is 50 years beyond it’s time. There is nothing like it in the entire world. If I ever had given up on my dreams I would never be where I am now. Fight for your dreams no matter how hard they seem. The fight will be worth it. ❤️

A few days ago I took my dog Zeke to the vet for a yearly check up. He’s almost 9 years old. Wow hard to believe he’s that old. Time flies by. I had some things to ask the vet about things one noticed with him. He’s had bad breath the last couple of months and it’s not gotten better. She checked his teeth and way in the back he’s got a bad tooth that looks like it’s going to fall out and on the other side another one that is rotten.

The vet tells me that he will need dental surgery and a cleaning and those teeth need to be removed and any others he has that are rotten. I felt like a Horrible pet owner I had no idea. The vet told me that he’s probably in pain which I have a hard time believing because he’s happy as a clam at home. He plays lots and eats well and loves his walks.

The vet tells me he will need the surgery at the beginning of the year. I ask how much it will be and I get bombarded with answers. The vet phones me yesterday and asks how Zeke is. I tell her maybe she should have checked in on his owner. I felt so overwhelmed with information when I left.

The tough thing is when you live basically pay cheque to pay check how do you pay for an emergency dental surgery. They gave me a quote without pet insurance and one with it. Thank goodness I have pet insurance because it cut the bill in half. I did tell them that I would like to talk to another vet in town who has very reasonable prices. In fact they help people I guess who are in similar situations. It’s all donations that make it affordable for everyone.

A couple of nights ago after the news I was awake in the night worring about how I would be able to afford Zeke’s dental bill. I still have no idea how it will all work out. I prayed and asked God for peace and that I trust Him and he’s never let me down.

Yesterday I woke up and felt surreal peace that only comes from the Lord. I felt so much gratitude that I didn’t come home from the vet with bad news and that Zeke will be ok after he’s has his surgery. Today I feel that peace still and God has a plan.

So no matter what happens He’s got this and I’m trusting that it will all work out. I also realize that I’m not the only person who ever has ever felt like this. I love that peaceful surreal feeling. 🐶

2025 is almost done. It’s been a good year. I decided that this year was about me for me to change what I’ve been doing all the years that wasn’t working. I have struggled with my weight and to be told that I’m in the range for heart attacks and strokes. Weight messes up so much of your life. My knees hurt so much and it was hard to keep up at work. I was in pain. I was overweight and never seemed to ever lose any. I had no idea why.

I found an amazing gut health group that has changed my life in so many ways. I knew that my gut is my second brain and if it’s screwed up I had to get it fixed in some way. There is no magic pill. Instead it has taken me to learn why I’m in the situation I was in. I started an amazing probiotic called Zive 7 and joined that community as well.

My gut health group is through an amazing and world renown doctor Dr. Anna Toker. Check out her website she’s got the most amazing knowledge.

https://drannatoker.com/

https://www.facebook.com/groups/zivealive/?ref=share&mibextid=NSMWBT

With taking Zive alive I’ve stopped all my acid reflux medications. I started to eat cleaner and I’m amazing at how well I’ve been doing. I’ve lost 15lbs I was recommended to lose 30lbs. I’m in a program through my health system called Lifestyle RX it is so about blood sugars. I can reverse my insulin resistance get my numbers down and it will go into remission. Wow that’s amazing. I love this program is 12 weeks with weekly zooms, homework and regular blood work.

As well as doing all of that I moved my business forward and love telling people about these drug free patches. They work so well in my life and with my weight loss and my patches I can walk better and move better at work. They work so well with everything else I’m doing. If you want to check out my website or you have any questions. Please reach out to me. There is nothing like this in the entire world. It’s 50 years ahead of it’s time. Yes you heard me right. It’s amazing technology.

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I’ve also been working on strengthening my body this year with an amazing physio. I’m so much stronger. I love how this year was about me changing what wasn’t working for me.

As we close 2025 and come into 2026 what things do you want to work on. I’m going to continue on my health journey and see what other opportunities come my way.

Happy New Year to you all.